Children and Divorce: How Self Hypnosis Can Help Your Children

October 28th, 2008 | by admin |
self hypnosis
J Seymour asked:


There are many issues to deal with children and divorce. Kids may suffer a dismal childhood when their parents are divorced. Self-hypnosis is a surprising support for a child who is having this confusing experience. Divorces do no have to ruin a child’s self-image or esteem.

Children and Divorce

Divorcing a spouse is one of the most stressful events in a person’s life. This event can be every bit as stressful for the child involved in the split. Many problems can occur including low self-esteem since the child may blame himself for his parents divorcing.

A child is usually quite self-centered and is likely to adopt feelings of guilt because of the breakup. He may see his parents’ relationship failing because of his behavior through his perspective. He may develop an image of himself as being unlovable and he foster this image with negative thoughts about himself and his ability to be loved.

Another significant problem arises out of loyalty. A child suffering through his parents’ divorce may feel as if he is being disloyal when he loves both parents. This becomes even more complex when the child recognizes that he is part of each parent.

For example, the child may develop the belief that each parent resents him because he reminds them of each other. When parents exhibit a great dislike for each other, they are—in essence—displaying a dislike for the child. This works on a subconscious level but it is very powerful.

Children Self Image
Self-hypnosis is a very valuable tool that can foster new inner beliefs through visualization. The child can picture himself as a loving individual who is loved and accepted by others. Children are prime candidates for hypnosis because they have wonderful imaginations and are able to visualize freely and with great acceptance.

A child can benefit greatly from the ability to relax and find inner peace through the process of hypnosis for children. This approach is naturally calming and the child can focus on having a happy childhood rather than on adult problems.

Support and Guidance

You can offer your child the support and guidance he needs during this difficult time. Hypnosis recordings offer a way for your child to develop a healthy self-image and self-affirmation.

You can find a fantastic hypnosis recording by renowned hypnotherapist Steve G Jones here - Children And Divorce. Steve’s compilation helps young people who are experiencing the negative emotions associated with parental relationship problems. The brilliant recording found here - Children Self Image - by Duncan McColl is a brilliant selection designed specifically for developing esteem. Other excellent selections are available here - Children Self Help. Simply follow the links for more information.



Cayla
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